I think all couples should date eachother.So I have combed the internet and found a ton of ideas.This one lady dated every week for a year(thats what were workin on) You can be cheap or expensive and switch em up,think up some on your own,whatever,creativity and just dating is the key.You can do them weekly,monthly,bi monthly ,special times or yearly...some dare to do daily. Here are some ideas to get you started..Have fun and let me know how the dating is going.I am on facebook and have started a group for this .You can also share your ideas.Happy Dating! Dont forget to take pictures and send your hubbys invites! I have them on a calendar and made him a print out of the dates and what day we will be doing them.So no excuses.The Hubby likes this dating thing so much he wants to surprise me with a date I know nothing about..sweet ha?
board game night(we played a regular game and then we played an adult version of a kiddie game..this is Hubbys favorite so far.)
be a tourist in your town ( we are going to see all the historical places in our town! we may eat while were out or take along some food)We hoppe on Hubbys Harley and enjoyed the the open road for this one.
our anniversary night in bed ( Its a work night for hubby so we shall just get to the good stuff !!) Hehehehe Keepin the details private!
weekend trip and hike (were goin for the weekend to the river for a quick fishin trip they have a place to take a hike so should be fun family time and couple time)invited friends for this one
maverick baseball game ( we are headed to our local baseball team game!!) Buy the team t shirt and accesories in advance.
movie and dinner in bed or couch( we went away over night at a friends cabin and went to a concert.Our friends joined us.)The movie thing will be moved to next weeks date.
ice cream and love notes (write an encouraging, sexy, loving, etc note for your husband each day this week. Slip it in his coat pocket, leave it with his keys for the morning, tuck it in his car, be creative. The date night can be your choice, but do your best to leave your husband a note each day. Be as flirty and creative as you can.)
backyard campout ( set the backyard up like a campsite and spend the day and evening outdoors..cooking outside too!! do as you would while camping but just in your own backyard.)
couch time date (grab a drink and snack tell the kids to leave you alone for a bit turn off the phone and all electronics,background music optional and talk about your day each other kids,money whatever but talk for a bit.try not to argue and hold hands,hug and end it with a kiss.)
bowling
make cookies
home candlelight date w/ dancing (set a small romantic table in a romantic spot in the house,cook a great meal or order in,dance to music talk,but not about anything serious or kids!! end with a nice dessert and well however you wanna end it.also dress up a bit or mabe just jammies.This may be a night to send the kids away to a friend or grams)
Chris birthday date his choice
play cards night (card games of your choice)
bucket list (Make your own list of things you want to do in life you can include together things to.Then share them and talk about plans on how to accomplish each one)
take a walk ( hold hands and talk. don't forget fido)
mad libs date night (copy some mad libs and have fun laughing)
halloween and costume night
slumber party( give your hubby a written invitation,buy new jamas,sleep by the fire,set out sleeping bags and pillows,set the stage,play games,watch movies,eat a simple meal and fun desert,have great snacks and a small cooler for drinks.don't forget the pancake breakfast in the morning)
grow old with me date (look into the future and dream of growing old together. Ready for a good laugh? Have you ever thought about what each other will look like in 50 years? You might have to have some thick skin for this one, but wouldn't it be fun to sketch out your image of each other? Will your spouse have laugh lines or frown lines (Ok, make sure you do this when you're not fighting)? Will he be bald or have a full head of hair? Remember to have a sense of humor. I can't draw for anything and my husband knows that so our expectations aren't high. Just sounds like fun.After you've had a great laugh, spend some time talking about what you want your relationship to look in 50 years. Where will you be? What will you have done in the past 50 years? What will you do to keep your relationship healthy and strong? Challenge your spouse: Grow Old With Me!)
recreate our first date
pray together date (pray together at least 3-4 times this week. Spend some time honestly sharing with each other what your true struggles are. And then bring them up in prayer together. Right then. Don't say, "I'll be praying for you." Rather do it in the moment. Right there.If this seems strange to you, take a prayer walk together. Put on your walking shoes and walk the neighborhood as you share your hearts with each other. And if for whatever reason, praying isn't for you, if your beliefs about God prevent you from participating, spend some time with your spouse sharing about your current struggles. Commit to keeping each other accountable. Commit to supporting each other to the best of your abilities. Commit to hearing the heart behind the circumstances.)
speak words of appreciation (Whether you go out or stay in, take a few moments this weekend just for the two of you. Take some time to tell each other how thankful you are for each other. That he always takes out the trash on Wed mornings. Or that she remembers to put the flannel sheets on the bed the first day of fall. No matter how big or how small, we all enjoy being appreciated. And no matter what spot your marriage is in right now, there's always good to see in your spouse and always something to be thankful for. Let them know that you notice. Practice being thankful for your spouse and the little ways in which they continue to enrich your life.)
family date(this is scheduled for getting our x-mas tree)
breakfast in bed
x-mas eve tradition date ( meet your hubby under the tree at the end of the day with a christmas carder each other and spend the night there..light the fire,keep the tree lights on,do as you wish..talk,play,cuddle and sleep.be as naughty or nice as you can be)
group date(new years eve)
future plans date (plan what your future will hold,its like the bucket list but this list is what you actually can do and will do.plan retirement,plan holidays and traditions etc.. its fun to talk and plan)
favorite things date ( Do your favorite thing as a couple)
pennies in a fountain date ( find a local fountain ours is the mall. we will get a drink walk the mall an then to end the date we will each throw at least 1 penny each to make a wish)
winter date (plan a date to play in the snow)
love letters (Write a love letter to each other and share them at bedtime.The rest after that is up to you. The letter must be romantic and may even include a poem)
43 kisses date ( Brush those teeth and find your favorite make out spot then spend time doing these 43 kisses….
Types of Kisses (43 Kisses Download)
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Standard Kiss
A simple kiss and a great way to get and give feedback about the kiss you do most often.
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French Kiss
Lean together into a simple kiss, open your mouths and touch tongues lightly. Enjoy the feeling of your tongues moving against each other. Important point - do not move too deeply into your partner's mouth.
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Sniff Kiss
Popular in Asian nations where public kissing is frowned upon, the sniff-kiss doesn't involve lips at all. Lean into your date and put your nose near their cheek, ear, or neck. Inhale their scent deeply.
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Nip Kiss
Instead of kissing with your lips, lean in close and gently bite your date’s lower lip, being very careful not to bite too hard.
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Eskimo Kiss
Put your faces close together and gently rub noses back and forth, up and down, or any which way you like.
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Butterfly Kiss
Get close to your partner and flutter your eyelids against their cheek, neck, lips, or nose.
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Upside-Down Kiss (Spiderman Kiss)
Have your partner lie on their back or sit in a chair and lean their head back. Lean over and give them a kiss with your heads pointed the opposite direction (noses near each other's chins).
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Flavored Kiss
Take a bite of strawberry, orange, piece of candy, or anything else and then give your date a French kiss.
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Mystery Kiss
Head to the local supermarket or candy shop and each pick out a bunch of flavors you like – this could be things like root beer barrels, toffee, grapes, strawberries, etc. (jelly bellies work well). Don’t show each other what you bought. Take turns closing your eyes while your partner eats a bite and then gives you a French kiss. See if you can guess the flavor!
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Sucking Kiss
When kissing with an open mouth, gently suck on your date's lower lip. Pull away slightly while kissing for that little extra touch, but not too hard.
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Vacuum Kiss
When your lips are pressing together, gently suck the air out of your partner's mouth.
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Fish Kiss
Suck your cheeks in so that both of you look like fish and try to kiss each other before you burst out laughing. Keep trying until you succeed.
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The Non-Kiss Kiss
Lean in close to your date until your lips are barely touching, rub your lips against each other's without puckering.
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Lick Kiss
Instead of touching your partner's lips with your own, lean in closely and gently run your tongue over their lips. End with a light kiss.
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Tease Kiss
Lean in until your lips barely graze each other's and pull back slightly. Do this a few times, enjoying the feeling of your partner’s breath, before kissing.
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Candy Kiss
While French kissing, pass a piece of hard candy or gum between your mouths.
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Ice Kiss
While French kissing, pass a small piece of ice between your mouths.
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Capture the Candy Kiss
Put a Skittle, M&M, or other small candy in your partner's mouth and see if you can find it and move it to your mouth. Don’t use anything larger than Skittles or M&Ms.
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Sliding Kiss
Expose your partner's feet, ankles, legs, stomach, and neck. Have them lie down and gently kiss them on the foot and slide up to the ankle, knee, thigh, stomach, and finally neck. Make sure to slide your lips across the skin between light kisses.
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Hickey
Gently, but firmly suck on your partner's skin until the area is pink or red. It may be best to do this in an area that can be covered by clothes.
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From Behind Kiss
Hold your date from behind and when they turn their head, move yours around to meet them and kiss.
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Slow Motion Kiss
Kiss your date at one-half or one-quarter speed.
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Opposite Kiss
If you usually kiss with your heads tilted to the right, try kissing with them tilted to the left.
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Downward Kiss
Starting at the ear, kiss down along your partner's jaw to their neck or collarbone.
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Tickle Kiss
Start by giving your partner a normal kiss and then start tickling their ribs, stomach, or underarms. See how long you can continue while you’re both laughing.
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No Lips Kiss
Lean in close, open your mouths slightly and touch tongues without touching lips.
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Blow Kiss
Give your partner wet kisses on their neck, back, or shoulder (their choice). Pull back slightly and gently blow on the area to give them a cooling sensation.
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Woodpecker Kisses
Have your partner close their eyes and give them short, quick kisses all over their face. See if you can cover their entire face before you burst out laughing.
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Lady and the Tramp Kiss
You both hold one end of licorice, taffy, fruit, or whatever in your mouth and eat until you're kissing.
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Shocking Kiss
Shuffle around the carpet until you build up an electric charge, lean in close until only your lips meet and give off a spark.
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High Low Kiss
Lean in and kiss your partner's upper lip, then pull back slightly and kiss their lower lip.
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Kiss on the Hand
Take your partner's hand and give it a light kiss on the top or palm.
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Kiss on the Cheek
Kiss your partner on the cheek.
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Kiss on the Neck
Hold your partner from the front or back and kiss them on the neck.
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Frog Kiss
Move in close, open your mouths, and touch tongues quickly and briefly, like a frog trying to catch a fly. After about a dozen touches melt in for a long French kiss.
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Kiss on the Ear
Lightly kiss your partner's ear, gently nibble or suck on the earlobe. Just once, lightly explore their ear with your tongue, many people don't like this but you never know.
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Kiss on the Back
Ask your partner which part of the back they want kissed. Pull up their shirt and kiss the area gently, rubbing your chin, cheek, and nose across the area.
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Kiss on the Foot
Ask your partner where their feet are ticklish. Avoiding those spots, lightly kiss them on the top of the foot, ankle, or toes. Give them a little tickle when you're done.
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Kiss on the Navel
Pull up your partner's shirt and gently kiss them on their navel. Use your tongue to explore the area.
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Kiss on the Nose
Hug your partner close and give them a soft kiss on the tip of their nose.
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Kiss the Eyes
Ask your partner to close their eyes. Start by lightly kissing the cheekbone once, the eyebrow once, and then very gently kiss your date's closed eyes.
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Kiss on the Forehead
Hold your partner close and give them a firm kiss on the forehead.
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Switch Kiss
With this kiss you're going to kiss your partner the way they usually kiss you and vice-versa. If they're taller, start by standing on a chair, and use the style they do, kiss the lip they kiss, put your tongue in their mouth if they usually put theirs in yours, hold them the way they hold you, you get the idea. This can be a real eye-opener!)
his valentines date ( as you plan your valentines remember to make sure his day is special as well. So be less selfish and make sure he gets his favorite things for the day to..foods,movies,gifts..whatever you do as a couple on this day make sure its about him too and ladies no sweats in bed tonight ok!!)
5 senses date ( We're going on a date to explore our "Five Senses." How do we explore our five senses? How creative can you get? Here are just a few ideas to get you started:
Smell--special dessert, yummy dinner, scented candle
Taste--dinner, coupon for his favorite dessert, edible body paint
Sound--Dance mix CD, romantic movie,
Touch--coupon for massage, body lotion,
Sight--Marriage photos, travel video, lingerie
Obviously this date can be adapted to a night out on the town or a night at home. The special touches are up to you. So let us know how you personalize this date to your marriage. What new ideas did you come up with?
intimacy box date ( You are going to create an intimacy box with your spouse. What's an intimacy box you ask?
An intimacy box is a collection of items that can only be used when creating an intimate environment with your significant other. These can items as simple as candles, massage oils, special music, bubble bath, ... how creative can you be?
So for this date you will be shopping together or separately. Ideally I think this would be so much fun to do with your spouse. Pick an inexpensive location, split up and come back together at an appointed time. (In the real world this isn't always possible. So doing this separately at most convenient times is still a great option). Keep your purchases a surprise until you can be together. And don't just throw it on the bed and say, "Well, this is what I came up with." Take time to really share with each other and talk about why you made each purchase. Relish these moments of intimacy and conversation with your spouse. )
international date ( were goin out to IHOP, but you can go out to your favorite international food..sushi,mexican,italian,etc.. or cook these dishes at home)
ABC date ( you need to plan this out.I recommend you do it together and each take half….
Are you imaginative? Great! You'll need to be as you work your way through 26 spontaneous, fun, and silly activities all on one date! Why 26, you ask? Well, that's the number of letters in the alphabet and your job is to figure out something to do for each one!
So this is how it works, over the course of the date you'll each take turns picking things to do for the letters A thru Z. For example, if you pick being Acrobatic for "A", then it's your date's turn to choose something for "B" like Breakdancing or a water Balloon fight. Get it? Besides that there aren't really any rules to this thing, you can go anywhere and do anything, be it a simple Hug for "H" or trying to sneak onto a Rooftop for "R". Which brings up a good point, not every letter has to be a big, spectacular event. You won't have time for that anyway. No, some of the best ones can simply be Holding Hands or talking about yourDreams for the future. Here are some random examples for the first few letters:
- A = be Acrobatic, make some Art, pet an Animal, look at a photograph by Ansel Adams, drink Apple juice, act like Apes.
- B = Breakdance, ride Bikes, Boil an egg, Build a fort, Blow up a Balloon, play Basketball, see who can Bark like a dog.
- C = Climb a tree, bake Cookies, make a Crank Call, sing Christmas Carols, Clap your hands, play Cards.
- D = name the 7 Dwarves, play Darts, kiss behind the Drapes, take a Dip in the pool, talk about your Dreams, take a Door off its hinges.
- E = ride in an Elevator, read an Excerpt from your favorite book, Enter a contest, see who can list the most famous people whose name starts with an "E", learn how to say "Hello" in Egyptian.
- If you get stumped think of general activities like music (listen to or sing favorite songs), travel (to streets or stores), eating, and playing sports.
There are also some fun variations to the game, one being that the person who doesn't pick the activity has to do it, which can make for some interesting situations. And then there's the one I like where you still work together, but each get 3 passes for activities you don't want to do. What happens is that you still alternate letters, but after the activity is picked you each have the option of saying "Pass!" which means the other person has to do that one by themselves. It's fun when one person says "For the letter S I choose Striptease" (it'll be the guy), and you see who can "Pass!" the fastest because only one person can pass on each letter. But remember, you only get 3 Passes for the entire alphabet, so don't waste them cuz I'd hate to see you end the date trying to pet a Zebra!
arcade date ( go out to your local arcade or fun zone and be a kid.)
lucky me date(St Pats day) (Plan an Irish date,get into the spirit of the holiday.whatever you plan make sure your date knows how lucky you are to have him.
my choice birthday date
family dinner
comedy club date ( this is a plan ahead date to go out to a comedy club for the evening,however if money and time is an issue charge up the computer cuddle up ,get on youtube and find comedians you know and have a good laugh.you can also rent a comedy movie or two and laugh away at that.The important thing is to laugh and laugh and laugh together.)
picnic date ( hubby proposed to me at a park so we may have a picnic there or just go to the nearest park and eat a picnic lunch. You can also use your backyard.)
drive in movie date ( Barstow has a cheap drive in. get fast food head out and act like teenagers at the drive in)
date in a bag date (easter may be a basket) ( its easter time so each of you go out and give each other a date in a bag or basket.That day you at least try to do one of them but do both or plan a day when you will use them.you can also use it for a back up date or spontaneous date.these don't need to be a lot of money just creative.
You're going to create a date in a bag. What's a date in a bag? It's a quick easy way to have date materials on hand for whenever you actually get a few minutes alone with your spouse. I know some weeks we don't get to our date just because we can't find a free night. Sure there's "moments" here and there, but no evenings so I just don't have the stuff on hand.
By creating a date in a bag, you can have the items on hand for when those moments hit. Think of it as a little bit of playing which yields the freedom of a whole lot of spontaneity.
So you're thinking, "That's great! But how in the world do I put that together? What goes in this bag?"
Well, here's a few ideas:
1. Childhood date: candy necklaces, M&M's, favorite childhood soda, episode of your favorite childhood sitcom, and talking about what it was like growing up.
2. Exercise date: water bottles, jump rope, and map outlining obstacle course at a local park.
3. Book date: copy of books you're both currently reading, favorite coffee/tea, some yummy bought scones or muffins, and talking about what you're learning or reading.here is more ideas….
1. Picnic Date: Grab items you can use at a local park. 2. Game Date: Grab a deck of cards and a few treats. 3. Spa Date: Grab some lotion, calm music and breath mints. 4. Italian Date: Grab an Italian movie, food and treats. 5. Our Favorite Things Date: Grab your favorite movie and
treats. 6.Memory Date: Grab your wedding album or video and
watch together. 7. Exercise Date: Grab water bottles and find a place to
exercise. 8. Bubble Bath Date: Grab some bubble bath and candles. 9. Rock Star Date: Grab your favorite music you can listento together. 10. TV Date Night: Grab a television series you and
your spouse want to watch and enjoy the whole season together.
date night inventory date (This week's dating challenge is a little bit your choice, little bit assignment. Location is up to you: dinner out, evening in, day at the park. More so this week's date is a talking point. It seems so often, we get into relationships and stop talking. I know from my own experience that other things seem more pressing: dishes to be done, kids to be bathed, house to be cleaned, blogs to be written. :-) So the talking goes on the back burner and I expect my husband to read my mind. This week's date involves getting you talking with your mate, a mini couples inventory of sorts. Pick your location and activity, but make sure you talk though the following questions over the evening:
Mate's Birthday:
Anniversary:
Mate's:
dress size:
pants size
shirt size:
shoe size:
ring size:
Mate's favorite:
color:
movie:
play:
author:
musical:
singer:
sport:
magazine:
jewelry:
candy:
hobby:
cookie:
meal/dessert:
restaurant:
vacation spot:
How does your Mate see love expressed: acts of service, gifts, time, affirmation, etc?
If you were forced to flee your home, what three items would your Mate want saved?
What's your Mate's favorite holiday? What do they like most about it?
What are the best and worst aspects of your Mate's job?
What is is the best piece of advice a friend ever gave your Mate?
I have more questions if you wanna go all out(let me know),but the point is talk about anything and everything!!
couples spa date (plannin the ivy!!)
mexican date ( olvera street and mexican food)
photo date (pull out photo albums and reminiss and while your at get or take family and or couple pictures!! also remember to take pictures of your life.
go out date ( go out to a movie and dinner make this cheap or lavish. also brunch and matinees are cheep to.You can also make this your choice but get out of the house!!
stargazing late night date
first words date ( This date requires a little prep work on your part. On small slips of paper, you're going to write the following words:
color, vacation, music, chore, children, parents, family, friends, talent, childhood, store, candy, sport, winter, summer, spring, fall, outdoors, restaurant, habit, house, birthday, pets, food, late night, read, watch, listen, taste, drink, ... other words you want to throw in as well.
Write each word on a slip of paper, fold it in two, and throw it in a bowl/a hat/ something to mix them up in. Take turns drawing words from the bowl and just say the first word that comes to your mind. Don't think; just say the first word that pops into your head. Is it funny, is it serious, is it bizarre? Let your mind go and see where the conversation takes you.
artistic date ( create something together,or make a craft together,write poetry together,play instruments, color a picture or draw.Whatever you do make sure its artistic)
27 years ago date(this is a day for hubby and I only its scheduled on the date we first well you know)
mentoring and witnessing a couple date ( this is an out there kinda of date. find a younger couple and have them over for dinner ,lunch,games,whatever.Young couples need to see older couples together and mentor them if needed. this could be a dating couple to. younger means the length of relationship and also the other couple should be younger than you to.You can find a couple that has some issues and just let them know your there for them. give it a whirl.explain the weekly date thing to.
spiritual legacy date ( Discuss with your spouse what kind of spiritual legacy you want to leave. Maybe you believe in God; maybe you don't. Maybe you believe in Karma or Allah or THE Universe. No matter what you believe in, you are leaving a spiritual legacy whether you realize it or not. The way you live your life, the way you speak to your spouse or your kids or your co-workers, the things you do every day... speak volumes about what you think is important. Be it money or relationships or image or... whatever. You're leaving a legacy.
This might be a tough conversation to have ... and that's the point. Fun dates are fun and they built memories that connect us. But every once in awhile we need to have these conversations. These are the conversations that are going to cement a marriage. I know personally that if it wasn't for our continuing commitment to following Christ, our marriage would have no basis. These are the conversations that make all our marriages deeper. These are the conversations that connect us.
So whatever your legacy may be... lay it out there. Be honest! Share your heart with your spouse! What do you want to be remembered for? What's your spiritual legacy? And if you don't believe in God, this conversation still applies to you. Is your legacy to be a great parent? Is your legacy to live generously in your relationships? Is your legacy to be a driving force in your community? What is your spiritual legacy?)
review date night ( this date is for one of the dates you missed,want to do,or repeat.It would also be great to start planning your dates for the next year.)
Date # 52 surprise date ( This is actually two dates you each surprise the other with a specially planned date for them.this is a plan ahead date. This could also be your big splurge date say a night or weekend trip,or concert whatever you wanna splurge on.If splurging is not possible then be as creative as possible with the date or dates you choose.This is also the last date for the year but below is ideas for the next years dates..Happy planning and happy dating!!)
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Other dates possible
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motorcycle ride date
go out to a movie and dinner
go play pool
go to the beach
cruise dinner
go to a concert
go to a museum
go buy a great tv show seasons worth of shows and watch them on a regular basis together
bubble bath with candles ummm yeah!!
massage night
strip poker
starbucks and talk date
kareoke
go to a sports game or at least go to a bar with drinks and cheer your team or watch the game at home
go to the fair or circus
go to the golf range
go to catalina island
take a dance class
go to a show like "cats"
total surprise date
go to a high school game
find a new recipe and cook together
go to a hotel
dinner theater
The ideas are limitless..have fun be creative,do new things ,do old things,but date each other and have fun!!